To Hope or Not To Hope

I haven't talked about my sweet niece on here but those of you who know me have heard about her. She was born with half of a heart, and we were told that we should not hope for her to live long. That was 3 months ago. She is such a fighter, she just likes to do the imposible. I tried not to open my heart to her, but how do you not love a baby? Well her heart Dr. is thinking that because she is older, she might be able to have something less invasive done than what they were thinking about at birth. So now we wait and see what he thinks on the 3rd. If she makes it that long. So now we are back to the if he think she could make it, do we try, or do we stand back and let her go. oh it makes me a little sick, what if she dies in surgery? Will we wish we hadn't? Oh I'm so glad it's not my choice to make!!